OHS #2

Now that our big day yesterday is over and we've been able to get a few hours of sleep, we are feeling rested and ready to give a proper update. 

5/22/18 - Open Heart Surgery #2

Quick little recap as to how we ended up here much sooner than we thought we would...
In short, Margaret's conduit was basically failing and her tiny right pulmonary artery seemed to be most of the culprit.  The limited blood flow was too much for the conduit to handle and it began to leak.  Once it started leaking, things dramatically escalated and voila hello large and impressive aneurysm.  We continue to be thankful that we had already been scheduled for the heart cath which was when the aneurysm was found and we learned how sick her little heart was. 



As part of pre-op last week, we had a sedated CT scan so the team could get a good image of her heart, locate the MAPCAs and get measurements. 

Back to surgery...
Margaret went back to the OR at just before 3pm and it took about an hour to get her settled with all of the necessary lines and prep needed for the surgeon.  

Just a little after 4pm, surgery officially started.  Everything went smooth getting her chest opened (thank God as this was one part that was going to be tricky with her enlarged heart). We were able to get periodic updates from one of our favorite cardiologists throughout the long day.  We've adopted the "no news is good news" mantra along with our "we've got this" motto lately.  Margaret truly has already taught us both so much about being patient and just letting things go without too much extra worrying.

It was just over 10 hours from kiss to kiss.  Longest 10 hours sitting in the waiting room trying to entertain each other while not getting on each others nerves.  We managed to sneak down for a quick dinner then back to waiting.

The actual surgery time was just over 7 hours.  A bit longer than they anticipated.  Locating, isolating and re-routing the MAPCA was a lot of work but he was able to connect it to Margaret's right pulmonary artery.  That same artery was also patched to make it bigger and the stent was cut open and made larger as well.  

Margaret's conduit was replaced with a new one of a different type.  The new conduit, Hancock Conduit, is supposed to be better able to handle higher and wonky pressures that we know Margaret still has.  

Pacemaker wasn't touched and we are glad to continue having that little safety net.  We certainly are not in any hurry to have that removed but it is reassuring that she hasn't been using it. 

Her chest is still open and we expect a plan to be discussed later today or tomorrow for closing it since she seems to be stable and the bleeding is leveling out.  For now, she's being kept comfortable with a concoction of pain and sedation meds.  Working on getting her to pee and continue to be relaxed and rest.  

There are a LOT of tubes and wires connected to her so we will not be sharing any pictures of her post-surgery until she's extubated and has started to have lines removed.  

Thank you for continuing to keep Margaret, our whole family, all of the doctors, surgeons, nurses, etc. in your thoughts and prayers.  We love you all!

1 month post-op

Can you believe it?  Margaret's open heart surgery was 4 weeks ago already!  It is amazing how fast the weeks have gone by now that we are home and settled back into our routines.  

Thanks Susie for the adorable headband!!!

The emotions we've experienced over the last month have been kind of all over the board.  It's such a relief to see Margaret doing so well, thriving really, at home but it's also a bit terrifying.  You see, it can be easy to forget that Margaret has a fragile heart.  She's spunky, sassy and most of all SO SO happy.  Seeing her in pain was the hardest thing either of us has ever experienced.  When we brought her home after surgery she was still struggling with not feeling quite like herself and we were still working on weaning her off of a pain med -- not because she was in pain, but because she was struggling with withdrawal.  I wasn't sure how much we would be willing to share about our journey as a family impacted directly by a rare CHD but ultimately the goal is to spread awareness and sometimes that's leaving your comfort zone.  Sometimes that means sharing more than you thought you would be comfortable doing and I guess that's kind of how we feel when we update everyone with how Margaret is doing.  We don't want anyone to feel bad for us --- look at this beautiful little girl we have been gifted by such a gracious God!  No matter what we go through, we are together and we will continue to focus on the good while also giving ourselves some time to deal with not so pleasant emotions occasionally because lets be real, we are still human!


Anyways...back to Margaret 😊

She's was able to wean off of the pain med much faster once we were home.  It was AMAZING to see her realize she was home and her adorable smile and goofy personality soon came back a few days after she realized she was here to stay.  We had a post-op appointment a few days after discharge and Margaret's cardiologist was happy with how well she transitioned home.  We did learn that she will unfortunately need a heart cath in mid-September.  We were hoping we would have a few months before going back for another procedure but it is what it is and we just remind ourselves how amazing our team is and that they really and very truly put Margaret's health and well-being as #1.  Have I mentioned how great they are?  They are like family to us even if they don't realize it, we love them!  

Next week, Margaret will have an echo (cue anxiety!).  After the echo Margaret's cardiologist will meet with us and we will discuss the plan for the heart cath.  The heart cath will not be diagnostic this time, it will be for them to do more intervention.  Something about checking on the pulmonary arteries, measuring leakage in a couple of places and measuring the pressures more accurately and deciding from there.  We will be staying overnight.  

For now, we will continue to bask in all of the glory that is our life and remind each other how blessed we are with the life we've been given.  We worked hard to get where we are and are glad we can share our experiences with you all.  

In honor of it being 4 weeks since the big surgery, of course, I snapped some pictures of Margaret in her Heart Warrior onesie --- looks like I'll be needing to order a new one very soon!  It was awfully snug but With Hope & Grace does such a wonderful job and her products are high quality.  Sharon is a heart mom as well and she truly loves what she does and we love supporting a small business like hers.  💓


OH - those pesky teeth that have been trying to come through have FINALLY popped and they are the cutest!  We're still waiting for them to finish coming all of the way through but Margaret is obviously much more comfortable now that they've popped through the gums.  Success!

up, down, backwards, sideways...FORWARD

the many faces of Mighty Margaret

Today we are composing this update with an overflowing amount of excitement!

Our weekend has been anything but boring.  Margaret had a very rough couple of days (again) and the result was a consult with the pain and palliative care team.  It was decided that the oral medication that had been prescribed in order to replace the IV med was not working well enough.  Apparently most kids can't tell the difference between the two meds but there are some who can...no surprise to us that Margaret can totally tell the difference.  She can also tell the difference between certain PPIs that she's been on for her reflux, but thankfully we figured that one out finally with help from her truly amazing pediatrician and team.  I'm hoping somewhere in Margaret's chart it's written in giant red letters the words:  VERY SENSITIVE TO MED CHANGES!  GLACIAL PACED-WEANING ONLY. 😆

Anyways, back to this weekend.  Yesterday, after consulting with the team, the dosage for the oral medication was increased to more of a moderate level - she was previously on a minimal dose with hopes that it would do the job.  Mom might have had a mini breakdown and finally told the doctors that enough is enough and clearly the current plan was not working.  The new dose seemed to be working MUCH better.  Phew. 

Advocating is hard.  I have a whole new outlook on how the families I work with must feel!

Overnight Margaret was able to get a solid 5 hours of sleep before waking up fussy.  She was able to calm down after a while and actually went back to sleep and woke up around 8:15.  We celebrated by accidentally disconnecting her extension from the feed pump and spilling formula all over me.  Whoops.  We couldn't help but laugh because that's totally something that has happened many times at home and it felt like we finally were able to think about something other than withdrawal.  

finally got some sleep!

our little fam bam

Margaret has been in a great mood and we can tell she's feeling a million times better.  It's absolutely crazy to think that less than 2 weeks ago she had open heart surgery!  It's kind of funny because I used to joke with Bill prior to surgery that this time we would bring her home with the glue still on her incision...guess not this time as the last piece of glue fell off yesterday.  Maybe next time we will be able to skedaddle out of here a little faster.  It's all up to Margaret, that's for sure.  

Overall, we are all feeling refreshed and super excited because discharge orders have been written and now we are just waiting for everything to be done!  We are going to RUN out of this place.  (discharge usually takes a while so we just hope to be home later this afternoon). 

adding more to her Beads of Courage

Status Change

Today was a big day!  Margaret got switched off of a couple of IV medications and her pain med is now an oral one.  Of course, for Margaret, this means it goes into her g-tube so she doesn't have to actually take it by mouth - guess that's a "perk" of having it!  She seems to be starting to be more okay with being awake, too, but it's definitely still tough.  Child Life brought us some fun toys to play with and help get her moving a little more.  We've also seen PT and OT this week already and both have some good advice for helping get her movin' and groovin'.  

the look of pure exhaustion and maybe annoyance

This morning we got the go-ahead to have her arterial line that was in her left arm removed. 🎉Margaret was super cranky about having arm held straight while removing the line and then extra upset about her arm being held while the bleeding slowed.  She's such a champ.  SO tough.  I'm constantly in awe watching how she goes through all that she has to endure and still manages to flash us that adorable little smirk of hers.  I definitely would have put up more of a fight if I were in her place, but it goes without saying that both her daddy and I would switch places with her in a  heartbeat if it was possible.  Seriously though, look at that face!  How can you not feel terrible when she flashes that look at you...if looks could kill...

new room!

The other big news is that we got moved down the hall!  Margaret is no longer ICU status and that means a new room with a new view and a bit more privacy.  Margaret got switched out of the big bed and into a crib when we got to our new room.  She even played with me a little bit today in between trying to sleep.  

Since her art line is out, that means mom and dad finally get to hold her again (with help from the nurses, of course).  She still has a few lines (in her neck and foot) and is on oxygen.  We weren't kidding when we said weaning will be careful and slow for this mighty little warrior.  Overall we're making some great strides forward and home shouldn't be too far away.  

back where she belongs

On our way home last night "mom guilt" hit hard and a million questions raced through my mind as it felt wrong being home without our leading lady.  One highlight of being home, though, was finding the bows that I had impulsively ordered off Amazon were in the mailbox!  Yay!  🎀 Those of you who know us know that we've been spending our Sunday evenings taking the Dave Ramsey FPU course so it's become a running joke in our house to comment about whether or not Dave would approve of some of our spending...he most definitely would not approve of my ordering of bows but when your infant goes through open heart surgery, you make sacrifices.  😜 We'll make up for it in our August budget. ha!

starting to be interested in playing!

Bumps are normal...

the look of pure exhaustion

If there's one thing we all know about Margaret, it's that she likes to be the boss.  Recovering after major open heart surgery is no simple task and there are bound to be bumps along the way.  

This weekend we encountered one such "bump" and Margaret let us all know that we were being a bit too ambitious with weaning her meds.  Sunday, in particular, was a bit rough.  Margaret struggled with the decreased amount of meds and ended up needing bumps to help relieve discomfort and frustration.  It was hard to see her so uncomfortable and needing more support - seriously, SO hard.  Getting and keeping her comfortable is a priority and yesterday afternoon/early evening we were able to achieve that, thankfully.  Not being able to scoop her up and snuggle her nice and close is one of the most difficult things either of us has ever experienced.  Especially when she flashes that professional-level pouty face that she's quickly becoming known for!

Today, she's been pretty calm.  She actually has been asleep for most of the day - her body is telling us it needs some serious rest!  The plan is to go super slow with weaning her meds and pay attention to what she is telling us each day.  That's ok.  We can deal with slow.  Slow and steady wins the race...🐢

This morning Margaret had an echo and, surprisingly, she slept right through it.  I watched in awe as the ultrasound tech was able to move the wand all over her chest and get the images that they needed all while Margaret kept snoozin'.  This is definitely not typical behavior of her so I kept waiting for her to suddenly open her eyes and start screaming, but it didn't happen!  I was even able to run downstairs and grab a quick bowl of cereal while the tech finished up.  The results of the echo haven't really been explained to us quiet yet.  The echo basically looked just like the one they did right after her surgery.  This isn't necessarily great, but it's better than things looking worse!  One of the cardiologists looked over the images and gave me a little bit of an idea but we will wait until the surgeon is able to examine them and decide what's next.  It's going to take time for Margaret's heart to adjust to the changes that were made to it -- really it could take even months for her body to fully adjust.  That's ok, too...we've got time...😊

we love getting rid of machines!

Margaret has to wear mittens because she keeps trying to pull her nasal cannula out when she rubs her eyes.  She doesn't like wearing them but at least she tolerates them ok.  That pouty face of hers really can tug at your heartstrings and make you feel exponentially guilty, though, that's for sure!  

Recovery update

Margaret has kept us all alert and aware of her every move (literally) over the last 24 hours.  For the most part, she's been relaxing and allowing her body to rest up and heal but that spunky and determined personality of hers has definitely been shining.  She has had a few episodes where she gets really upset/uncomfortable/frustrated and turns blue so that's a bit scary.  Thankfully, yet again, because of the grace of the amazing nurses and doctors, she's been fine and continues to be safe.  

precious little face napping

We knew taking her breathing tube out was a possibility for today but knowing that Margaret likes to make her own decisions we weren't totally sure it would happen.  Well, this afternoon she finally was stable and awake enough to allow the team to extubate her!  She is still on some nitric oxide and a high-flow cannula but it's so nice to see her sweet little mouth without the breathing tube.  Who knows how much she's actually getting since she totally is a mouth breather and I'm pretty sure the flow goes in her nose and straight out her mouth. ha!

always needing to have a hand to hold

Taking the tube out has been an adjustment for her but now that it's been a while she seems to be feeling much better.  There has been lots of uncomfortable cries, which are muffled by her hoarse voice unfortunately.  However, she's allowing herself to give into the sleepy dust and taking some good naps.  A little while ago she woke up and we were able to play with her and read one of her favorite books (thx Great Aunt Maralee! 😉).  For just a few minutes she was distracted by us and really seemed the most "with it" as she has since before surgery.  We are both excited to see how she is feeling in another day's time that's for sure!  

Oh - chest tubes came out today, too!  The next few days should be exciting as we will hopefully start to see more of our spunky little lady's personality shine.  We've warned the nurses... 😜  

Beginning the road to recovery

look at that gorgeous number!

Now that Bill and I have had an opportunity have a good night's rest (seriously so grateful for the Ronald McDonald House!) we feel comfortable sharing a little bit more about where we are at and what happens next.  We are trying to give enough information to give a good picture of what Margaret is going through because of her CHD without sharing too much and getting too personal.  We truly hope we are spreading awareness and helping shine the light on what it means to have a child with a CHD.

The plan moving forward is to take things slow and let Margaret tell us what she can handle. We all know way too well that Margaret likes to throw surprises at us and we are determined to keep those surprises to a minimum during this hospital stay.  I've said it a million times before and I'll say it a million more times: this hospital and the staff here are phenomenal.  It's comforting to know that the nurses taking care of your precious daughter remember her and are excited to see how much she's grown.  

Always with a bow!

The breathing tube will stay in for at least today to help Margaret's body relax.  The pressures in her heart are still not quite where they want them so she's on nitric oxide to help keep her heart from working too hard as a result of the pressures.  This is being very closely monitored.  

Margaret had bleeding that might be concerning for some, but because her team is so amazing and proactive have been working to get that to calm down.  It already looks way better than last night when we first saw her after surgery.  She's had a couple of x-rays to make sure her lungs are clear and there isn't blood flowing into or around where it shouldn't be and putting extra stress on her heart.  All seems well so far and the x-rays have been reassuring.  

Last night Margaret decided to remind us all just how spunky she can be and kept the night nurses busy!  She is definitely a wiggly little lady and ended up earning herself a stronger sedation medicine because she was trying to fight the sedation too much.  Margaret is at the age where rolling around starts to become appealing and one of our concerns going into surgery was how the heck we will keep her entertained and still during recovery -- this is definitely going to be one of our biggest challenges as Margaret does not sit still.  She loves to move and if we blink too fast she will be running circles around us all very soon! (Aunt Jessie - we KNOW you're patiently waiting for that day 😉 ).  Anyways, Margaret seemed to be trying to roll over last night so they made a switch to a different medication and she's relaxing now and being closely watched for wiggles.

Pink piggies!!!!

We hope to slowly decrease vent supports today and maybe tomorrow start talking about extubation.  Only time will tell and Margaret will let us know when she's ready for that.  We do not want her to get extubated too soon and end up needing a heart catheterization or another procedure which would mean being intubated again.  

We will be taking it easy and trying to think of how in the world we can express how much we appreciate the love, support, prayers, good vibes, EVERYTHING that each and every one of YOU has sent our way.  You all rock and we hope you are maybe learning a little about what it means to have a child with a Congenital Heart Defect.  

Surgery day

After meeting with the surgeon who is performing Margaret's procedure we find ourselves better understanding what they are aiming to do today and have a better grasp on how complicated this surgery can be.  She's basically having a combination of procedures rolled into one.  The risks of the surgery are scary but really there are no other options.  We are blessed with this precious miracle and watching her kick CHD butt is humbling.  She's so strong and here mommy and daddy can't wait to watch her grow and continue to "wow" the world!

*picture drawn by Dr. Moga while explaining everything to us

Here's a rundown of the day ... *I'll update as we gain more information and updates from the OR...

10:23 am - Margaret was taken back to the OR by the nurse anesthetist. It could be an hour or maybe 2 before the procedure actually begins. Margaret sure wiggled her way into every nurse here in Par 4's heart this morning. Lots of smiles, giggles and squeals while we readied her for his big day. We watched the nurse take her through the big doors and thankfully Margaret was all smiles and very distracted by this new friend who was giving her attention. 

11:52 am - the phone in the waiting room finally rings and we get "the call" saying surgery has started.  Margaret is doing well.  

2:19 pm - Cardiologist quick update: Dr. Moga has "everything opened up and he's able to see what he needs to have access to.  Observations so far:  the right Pulmonary Artery is slightly larger than he thought it was and the left Pulmonary Artery is slightly smaller than he thought.  Not good news, not bad news!  Slow and steady!  
*at least there is a L&O marathon on to distract us...

4:45 pm - DONE!  Great news on all fronts - Margaret was very well behaved for the whole surgery.  The VSD is closed (yay!).  The larger collateral was re-reouted to be connected to the small right pulmonary artery.  The Melbourne shunt was disconnected and the pulmonary arteries were connected to the new conduit -- this was extra tough because of how small the PAs are, but Dr. Moga is a miracle worker so we had no doubt that he could do it ;)  The pressures on the left and right sides of the heart will be closely monitored to make sure they end up at levels that are more desirable.  As of right now they are equal and that is not what they should be.  -- We are currently waiting for Dr. Moga to come in and tell us more, but for now, we are elated!!

It will still be an hour or more until we get to see our Mighty Margaret but you know we are feeling relieved and have some renewed energy knowing our baby girl has done so well.  

 

*That's 2 super happy parents right there!!  We cannot wait to see our girl.

5:30 pm - We had an opportunity to talk with the surgeon.  He is very pleased with everything and we are overwhelmed with relief and excitement.  There is a long road ahead but today was a giant leap in the right direction.  Mighty Margaret is definitely showing us all just how Mighty she is :)  Living up to that nickname for sure!!  

Margaret's diagnosis

So - what exactly is wrong with Margaret's heart? <------ we get this question a LOT, so here's my attempt to explain her CHD.  *Remember, this information is coming from a mom, not a medical professional and there's still a chance I don't fully understand every single piece of the puzzle but this will give you an idea.

Tetralogy of Fallot with Pulmonary Atresia and Major Aorto-Pulmonary Collateral Arteries

TOF/PA/MAPCAs -- click the link to see a .pdf put out by the Heart Clinic

When I was pregnant, it was difficult to know for sure as to whether or not Margaret actually had any Pulmonary Arteries, but it was clear there definitely was no Pulmonary Valve.  The MAPCAs were an added complication in that they were difficult to see and identify for certain as well.  Fortunately, although she has some MAPCAs, hers are not as severe or large in number as they can be.  It's my understanding that these MAPCAs develop as a sort of way for the heart to make up for not having pulmonary arteries (or sufficient arteries).  

TOF is basically a defect where there are 4 main issues and the result is not enough oxygen ends up in the blood being pumped throughout the body.  Pulmonary Atresia and MAPCAs are an "added bonus".  

*This is the picture the cardiologist who diagnosed Margaret's condition with drew when she first sat down with us.  It was scary and overwhelming but it's helpful to look back at and try to better understand our little warrior's heart.

*This is a picture the surgeon drew for us when we met with him a week after our initial diagnosis.  He proved right then and there how much he knows and his confidence was obvious!

Here is another good site to read up on TOF put together by Boston Children's Hospital.

Many times babies who are born with TOF are labeled a "pink" or "blue" tet but honestly we don't know what Margaret would fall under.  She was born nice and pink but she did require a shunt surgery within her first week of life and her team never actually used pink or blue to describe her.  It's really not important but you do hear people talking about pink and blue TOF often in the CHD world.  

The big surgery Margaret will be having is often called the "full repair" because the ultimate goal is to repair the four defects.  This isn't always the case for each child and some require multiple surgeries to finish the "repair".  I'm not sure how I feel about the word repair being used to describe what is going to happen to Margaret's heart tomorrow because I think it gives a false hope of being "done" and her heart being "fixed".  This isn't the case.  Margaret will always have TOF and her heart will always be different and require follow-up care by the cardiology team.  Margaret will also have future surgeries to replace her Pulmonary Valve throughout her lifetime as she grows.  Eventually the goal is for those to happen via heart catheterization procedures though instead of open heart surgery.

The major things we hope to have accomplished tomorrow during surgery in bullet form:
- undo the Melbourne Shunt that was done when she was 6 days old (basically put her pulmonary arteries back where they should be and connect them to a conduit)
- close the VSD
- build and place a conduit/pulmonary valve
- re-route one of the bigger MAPCAs to utilize it more efficiently/effectively

We've been warned several times that there's a possibility of the VSD not being closed fully because Margaret's heart has been working with it open and closing it completely might be too much pressure for it.  The surgery will take place in the hybrid operating room so after completing everything they will do a heart catheterization to check pressures and see how her heart holds up before taking her off bypass.

Margaret's pacemaker will remain in her for now as well.  She has a spunky history and it's best to keep it in and see how she recovers from this major surgery before any decision can be made about her possibly not needing it forever.  We aren't in a hurry to have it removed anyways.  Not having to worry about hear heartbeats not being in a normal rhythm is something we don't want to have to worry about if we don't have to!

And here's a picture of Mighty Margaret from church last week.  She's recently decided that she likes to make faces at the people who sit behind us and she LOVES to squeal during the quietest parts of service. :) **check out those cheeks!! 

Postponed!

Like all things in life, nothing is ever 100% certain and this rings true with scheduling major surgery as well! 

This morning the Heart Clinic called and they had a new baby come in who needs emergency surgery so Margaret is being bumped to next week.  It's looking like Wednesday, July 26th will be the new date for her surgery -- we are waiting on more details like time and when pre-op will be set up again.  That's right... we're going to have to do pre-op again.  There's a chance the x-ray, ECHO and EKG won't need to be done again, but the dreaded bloodwork will for sure.  Yikes.  

Anyways - We've been anticipating this surgery for 6 months so what's another week to wait?  Maybe we will get some rest over the next few days and be able to recharge because Lord knows neither of us has gotten any sleep lately.

We continue to be grateful that Margaret continues to be stable and her team feels comfortable with moving her surgery back.  

Please say some prayers and keep this new family and new baby in your thoughts over the next couple of days.  Bill and I understand their situation and the emotions they are probably circulating through all too well.  

More details about when Margaret's surgery will now take place to come...

Here's a picture of our little warrior from earlier this week when we met up with Auntie Jessie:

Pre-Op

"The worst heart defect to have is the one your baby has."  --- Amen.

Today was long and Mighty Margaret was a complete rockstar.  Our morning schedule was jam packed and Margaret wasn't going to miss ANY of it.  The little lady who usually takes multiple naps before even lunch time was wide awake the entire time we were at the hospital.  She had her longest stretch of completely alert time today from 8:30am-12:30pm.  It was amazing to watch her every second.  

We started our morning at the Children's Heart clinic where I braced myself for a long and torturous ECHO where I just knew Margaret would scream through the whole thing.  Guess who didn't scream!  Margaret was perfect.  She let the ultrasound tech get good images and only started to get fussy towards the end.  It definitely helped that the TV in the room had Mickey Mouse on -- this little lady is already in love with the Mouse and we can't wait to take her to Disney!!

Next up was meeting with Margaret's favorite cardiologist.  Margaret's height, weight, sats and BP looked good and we think her doctor was excited to see how much she's grown.  She certainly was excited to see him and gave him lots of smiles and excited arm/leg wiggles.  She also let him listen to her heart and lungs while she stared him down and tried to "help" by grabbing the stethoscope   We got to ask a lot of questions and get a better idea of what to expect for Thursday.  Every time we bring Margaret to the Heart Clinic for appointments we are reassured that we made the absolute best decision in pursuing her care there.  The love and patience this clinic has for their patients and families is phenomenal.  

When we finished at the clinic we headed up to the Par 4 unit.  This is where we will start on Thursday and also where the waiting room is located.  The Child Life Specialist met us at the check--in desk and she was with us for most of the rest of the appointments.  Her job is to help make sure we are fully informed and prepared for what Margaret will look like after surgery and in the coming days.  It's a shock to see your baby with tubes coming out of her everywhere so we are thankful the hospital has people on their teams to help prepare families.  

Our nurse today was the same one we had a month ago for Margaret's cath -- she was so excited to see Margaret again!  

Babies with heart conditions are often very difficult to get blood draws from and Margaret is no exception.  The lab tech came up to draw blood and unfortunately after checking both arms and sticking her twice, he was unsuccessful.  This was hands down the hardest part of today.  Margaret was so upset and she let us all know how she felt.  Thankfully she's pretty easy to calm down most of the time and the fabulous nurse advocates strongly for her, too.  2 unsuccessful pokes and then they call in the big dog...the anesthesiology doctor.  She was able to get 1mL of blood (they needed 5 for all of the panels and tests they are supposed to run...) from a vein in Margaret's hand.  This was a good start --- time to prioritize those tests until they could get more blood on Thursday when our little diva would be under anesthesia.  The lab tech came back and was able to do a heel prick to get some more blood.  Poor Margaret was exhausted by this time but she kept her eyes on everyone who came into our room.  She wasn't about to miss ANYTHING.

We had a chest x-ray done as well and by this point Margaret was way over tired after skipping all of her morning naps and had a full belly from having finished one of her feeds while being on the unit.  Bill and I kept saying to each other how we couldn't believe that she was still awake!  Too much excitement and new people to get to know I guess.  

Next up was the EKG.  Usually kids don't mind these but Margaret was still upset about all of the pokes and blood draws so she was pretty sad about this too.  The tech let me hold her and that helped.  *look at that sad little face!!!!  

The last thing on our agenda was to go over eating restrictions for the day of surgery, a few reminders of what to remember to bring and then we were off!  Time to head home and debrief with each other and check in with each other's sanity.  We might have made a detour through the DQ drive-through for a little ice cream therapy on our way since we both managed to keep calm and I didn't cry during all the terrible blood draw attempts.  :)

That's it for now!  Tomorrow is our "day of rest" and we will be soaking up all the snuggles and frantically packing up bags for Thursday.  We are not ready for this, but we are.  Margaret is going to continue to kick CHD's butt and show the world just how Mighty she is. We are SO SO SO proud of our tough little warrior.  

**seriously - that smile.  I've never met such a happy baby and I'm so blessed to be her mama!

Surgery - the BIG one

Thursday, July 20th, 8:30am

Mighty Margaret is scheduled for her 3rd heart surgery, although this one is "the big one" as it will be open heart surgery.  They call this surgery her "full repair" but we do not yet know what exactly will be done.  We know what the overall defects are but Margaret's heart is complex and a lot will be determined during the surgery.  Pre-op appointments are on Tuesday, July 18th and we should have a better understanding of what to expect of the surgery after those appointments.  

We ventured out to take some pictures of Margaret in her Mighty Margaret outfit.  Here are a couple!

And a few wearing another favorite onesie: